Great post, if I may counter, mostly on semantics…
I don’t despise PvP, I dislike unfettered, non-consentual PvP, being forced to be someone else’s content against my will, with the “dude, you logged in, that’s consent” as the only “justification”. It doesn’t have to be ganking, not every Eve player is a sociopath, that entire game (and now SC as well) are just “get gud or gtfo”, unsympathetic, non-consentual PvP. No skills, levels, talents, perks, etc, it’s for 12 year old twitchers with 20 hours a day to play, Genz influencers who get paid to stream their being stream-sniped, not 60 year old guys who just want to haul and explore.
Arenas, PvP flags, PvP areas, places where people can play how they wish, all good, enjoy. I don’t play PvP games because of this. They are not bad games, I just don’t enjoy them, I self-select to not play them and appreciate that gamers who enjoy them have a market to play in, good on them. I have my PvE games I enjoy, it’s all good.
Everyone who backed SC is absolutely NOT in the same boat. I was flat out lied to, EVERYthing I backed is gone. I backed a PvE game, written by a PvE game designer, with promises of private servers, PvP toggles, and a 100% guarantee I’d be able to avoid PvP. I put a significant amount of money into that game, and it is gone. PvP players are certainly getting the game they wanted, but PvE players are not, regardless of what was said or what money was paid. There’s “scope creep” and then there’s “thanks for the cash, sucker”. We can certainly discuss the minor features that are all unknown, whether the game will launch at all, etc, and we certainly are together in that, but the game I backed was cancelled, after they got my cash, without refunding my money, and they simply started a new game that is the polar opposite of what I want. How I know this was intentional was the fact that they didn’t offer the refund. They didn’t say “we’re changing the direction, going back on what we said, and if this is no longer the game you wanted then we’ll happily refund your money”. What they actually did is change the EULA to make it IMPOSSIBLE to get my money back, like a landlord raising my rent 10% every 6 months until I’m forced out.